How Deep Is Your Love

This day & age the word (love) has become part of the everyday language of every man, boy, girl, & woman! At a point in life telling somebody that you loved them was a huge step and wasn't really spoken to funny unless that person was really & truly in love with the one they felt they could spend the rest of they lives with. Now its just second nature to everyone! Yeah love has many definitions and can go in several directions to mean two differnt ways of showing love. But the love i'm talking about is shared between two lovers not family or friends. Now lets break down what a person means when they say they love you & when they say they are in love with you! When your man or woman say that they love you! They haven't completly gottin to the point where they can give all of them to you! They are still in the prime of getting to know if you are the one that will love them & not cause they heart no kind of pain. They are also do self evauluating to search deep with in themself to make sure they are ready to fall and committ totally to you. They are loving you with they heart and mind! And the love stops right there! Now when they say they no long love you but they are in love with you! They have let all fears die and giving you they entire being. The love not only is coming from the heart & mind, but the soul! They have allowed you into another rim of they life and feel safe letting you into a special place that only God has ever been found. To get to that point they have to trust you completly and trust themselves as well. Being in love with some one to some is a big step so they take they time to get to that. Some it take years & other months& months down the road but they will come to that point. Falling in love with someone just don't come over night, it take's time! With that said and out of the way the one question that stands out in all of this is really how deep is your love for the one you share you world with? How far do you love extend for them or do you put limitations on the amount that you show the love and stand true to your word? Look at the following questions and ask yourself if your love is deep enough to stand the test of time or your love just isn't that strong!

1. You & your partner is out in the club. A fight break out & someone pulls out a gun. Your man or woman isn't paying attention and the gunman points it in they direction. You know by the time they realize it they could be the last you see them. Would you take that bulliet or would you put a limitaion on your token of love & say a quick prayer to God & hope they make it & save yourself.

2.Your man come home & tell you that the two of you need to talk about the work that you think he been going to do every night he leave the house. He tell you that he been really sleeping with his baby mothers & ex-girlfriends to make ends meet & slanging on the side. Do you let the love withstand this test and help get him a real job or do you say the hell with him and give him the boot?

3.You been with your girl for 4yrs & yall have a beautiful child together, at the most critical time of your life when your child need you, the truth is revealed that you aren't the father and the real child father need to be contacted for the childs well being. You go back in the room with the child and the mother with all this weighing heavy on your mind, you tell her you know and contact the real father. after the child is well, Do you continue love the mother or will you up and walk & let all that love go down the drain?

Now that is where the how deep is your love come into place. A lot of us say in the beinnging of relationships that we always gonna be there no matter what. You gonna be the one to make sure nothing ever happing to them and that you will be a man & woman of your word. So if those three questions was to just come into your life could you still keep the promises or will the love won't matter nomore and you just let go heal and find someone else. Why do we put limits on love? How come when situations & storms come into our relationships we don't want to talk & work things out, we are quick to throw it all away and leave some one else to deal with the problems we left behind. Lets learn to work things out before we just throw the love, committment, & work away. If you done put in 3yrs & up into keeping that person & loving them work it out, don't be another statistic in this world! Let love fix & mend what's been broken, not pulse of rage & hurt. By the time you come to the realization that you didn't want things to end it'll be too late to have that person back in your life, & in your arms! Think about it, your heart never lead you wrong!