Making More Money Than Your Spouce

For years woman have been told that they place of work is inside of the home and that the man is the one to provide the life for his household and family. But look around you, there are plenty of woman in the work field doing things that we have always been told that we wouldn’t accomplish. Woman really didn’t have a voice when it came to our rights. Look at how things have changed now! We are holding government jobs, head chairmans of major companys, some even founders of they own jobs. Hillary Clinton has taken it up a notch to become President showing that woman can run a whole nation as long as she is given the chance too. We don’t have to be put on limitations based upon what society says, We can become that of our choice and excelle in it. Now a days it’s gonna take two to work if they are an average middle class family. One pay check alone can’t pay the bills with prices steady rising like it is. They will sturggle and you shouldn’t have to live pay check to pay check. Some woman feel that they can’t get a man because the men is intemidated by them because of the job they have and so on. But wake up woman there is nothing wrong with getting out there and making you own money and helping out. It’s a differnce when you out to help than to boast and belittle them. What I mean by be little them is this, You may have a job that is paying $15 an hour and your man or husband is making roughly $10 an hour, you look at your pay check as being more so you feel you have the right to pay the highest bill that you have or pay them all and tell him that his money isn’t needed. You can handle it on ya own. Even in the mist of arguments you’re quick to throw up in his face about how much you make and that you can make it with out him if he was to eva leave and that he would be the one that will be running back asking for help. You is belitting him. When it comes to who make more money isn’t the problem that the men have. They don’t mind you getting out there and work and doing something to better yourself but it become a problem when you step into the role that they have been playing for years and that’s the provider, and the protecter. Steping into that role is taking away they pride of being the man of the house.  That’s when the problem is formed. You can go to them and say. Well Baby I know the bills is coming around and you been handling things on ya own and to show how much I appricate all that you have been doing for the family and the house I want to help ease the burden off of you and put in with you and pay some of the bills. Let me contribute! Or you can just simply do something special for him but neva step into that role that they been holding for so long! They feel in control when they are looked upon as the provider. Like  I said it is never bout who make more money is about steping into they role and taking ova! So ladies you can work and make more money than ya spouse just set some aside for hard times and for ya self and kids but neva cross the line of taking over the role of provider!